Any man can be kind when he is comfortable. I'd always thought kindness a trivial virtue, therefore. But when we were hungry, thirsty, sick, frightened, with our deaths shouting at us, in the heart of horror, you were still as unfailingly courteous as a gentleman at ease before his own hearth.
Lois McMaster BujoldEvents may be horrible or inescapable. Men have always a choice - if not whether, then how, they may endure.
Lois McMaster Bujold