I think you should not limit yourself to dating somebody older or younger.
My dad had emphysema and both of my parents had chronic bronchitis and ended up with cancers - all smoking related.
Look at any black-and-white movie; everybody is smoking.
I'd had my daughter when I was a teenager - I took my daughter to college with me.
I talk about acting to students making the transition from high school to UCLA. Kids going into this profession really need to know the reality of it.
They almost ran me off the road several times. There are so many chances that they take to get the right photo.