A foreign minister, I will maintain it, can never be a good man of business if he is not an agreeable man of pleasure too. Half his business is done by the help of his pleasures: his views are carried on, and perhaps best, and most unsuspectedly, at balls, suppers, assemblies, and parties of pleasure; by intrigues with women, and connections insensibly formed with men, at those unguarded hours of amusement.
Lord ChesterfieldSilence and reserve suggest latent power. What some men think has more effect than what others say.
Lord ChesterfieldA vulgar man is captious and jealous; eager and impetuous about trifles. He suspects himself to be slighted, and thinks everything that is said meant at him.
Lord ChesterfieldGive nobly to indigent merit, and do not refuse your charity even to those who have not merit but their misery.
Lord Chesterfield