It is by vivacity and wit that man shines in company; but trite jokes and loud laughter reduce him to a buffoon.
Lord ChesterfieldRemember, that when I speak of pleasures I always mean the elegant pleasures of a rational being, and not the brutal ones of a swine. I mean la bonne chรจre, short of gluttony; wine, infinitely short of drunkenness; play, without the least gaming; and gallantry, without debauchery.
Lord Chesterfield