It is by vivacity and wit that man shines in company; but trite jokes and loud laughter reduce him to a buffoon.
Lord ChesterfieldYou must embrace the man you hate, if you cannot be justified in knocking him down.
Lord ChesterfieldIf you wish particularly to gain the good graces and affection of certain people, men or women, try to discover their most striking merit, if they have one, and their dominant weakness, for every one has his own, then do justice to the one, and a little more than justice to the other.
Lord Chesterfield