It seems to me that physical sickness softens, just as moral sickness hardens, the heart.
Lord ChesterfieldMen, as well as women, are much oftener led by their hearts than by their understandings.
Lord ChesterfieldWomen who are either indisputably beautiful, or indisputably ugly, are best flattered upon the score of their understandings; but those who are in a state of mediocrity are best flattered upon their beauty, or at least their graces; for every woman who is not absolutely ugly thinks herself handsome.
Lord Chesterfield