A gentleman has ease without familiarity, is respectful without meanness; genteel without affectation, insinuating without seeming art.
Lord ChesterfieldWomen who are either indisputably beautiful, or indisputably ugly, are best flattered upon the score of their understandings; but those who are in a state of mediocrity are best flattered upon their beauty, or at least their graces; for every woman who is not absolutely ugly thinks herself handsome.
Lord ChesterfieldNo man can possibly improve in any company for which he has not respect enough to be under some degree of restraint.
Lord ChesterfieldCottages have them (falsehood and dissimulation) as well as courts, only with worse manners.
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