If you wish particularly to gain the good graces and affection of certain people, men or women, try to discover their most striking merit, if they have one, and their dominant weakness, for every one has his own, then do justice to the one, and a little more than justice to the other.
Lord ChesterfieldSincerity w the most compendious wisdom, an excellent instrument for the speedy despatch of business. It creates confidence in those we have to deal with, saves the labor of many inquiries, and brings things to an issue in few words.
Lord ChesterfieldPeople will no more advance their civility to a bear, than their money to a bankrupt.
Lord ChesterfieldIf you will please people, you must please them in their own way; and as you cannot make them what they should be, you must take them as they are.
Lord Chesterfield