In the case of scandal, as in that of robbery, the receiver is always thought as bad as the thief.

Wrongs are often forgiven, but contempt never is. Our pride remembers it forever. It implies a discovery of weakness, which we are more careful to conceal than a crime. Many a man will confess his crimes to a friend; but I never knew a man that would tell his silly weaknesses to his most intimate one.

Great merit, or great failings, will make you respected or despised; but trifles, little attentions, mere nothings, either done or neglected, will make you either liked or disliked in the general run of the world.

Men are much more unwilling to have their weaknesses and their imperfections known than their crimes.

Young men are apt to think themselves wise enough, as drunken men are apt to think themselves sober enough.

Loud laughter is the mirth of the mob, who are only pleased with silly things; for true Wit or good Sense never excited a laugh since the creation of the world. A man of parts and fashion is therefore often seen to smile, but never heard to laugh.

You must be respectable, if you will be respected.