People will no more advance their civility to a bear, than their money to a bankrupt.
Lord ChesterfieldIf you will please people, you must please them in their own way; and as you cannot make them what they should be, you must take them as they are.
Lord ChesterfieldManners must adorn knowledge and smooth its way in the world, without them it is like a great rough diamond, very well in a closet by way of curiosity, and also for its intrinsic value; but most prized when polished.
Lord ChesterfieldLet your enemies be disarmed by the gentleness of your manner, but let them feel at the same time the steadiness of your just resentment for there is a great difference between bearing malice, which is always ungenerous, and a resolute self-defense which is ever prudent and justifiable.
Lord Chesterfield