Start dating someone who is funny, someone who has what in high school you called a "really great sense of humor" and what now your creative writing class calls "self-contempt giving rise to comic form." Write down all of his jokes, but don't tell him you are doing this. Make up anagrams of his old girlfriend's name and name all of your socially handicapped characters with them. Tell him his old girlfriend is in all of your stories and then watch how funny he can be, see what a really great sense of humor he can have.
Lorrie MooreThose are the love killers. They love you and then they kill you. They're from another planet. Supposedly.
Lorrie MooreMake a list of all the lovers you've ever had. Warren Lasher Ed "Rubberhead" Catapano Charles Deats or Keats Alfonse Tuck it in your pocket. Leave it lying around, conspicuously. Somehow you lose it. Make "mislaid" jokes to yourself. Make another list.
Lorrie MooreThis is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.
Lorrie MooreYou know, I'm just a very boring, not very funny person in person. I don't feel pressured to be otherwise.
Lorrie Moore