People eyeing you as a potential leader tend to ask three questions: Are you committed? Do you care about me? Can I trust you?
I bet you went on one date and wanted to get married.
Don't ever ask a player to do something he doesn't have the ability to do. He'll just question your ability as a coach, not his as an athlete.
Only the unprepared are overcome by pressure
Coaching is nothing more than eliminating mistakes before you get fired.
When I work a game as an analyst, all I do is look at the game like a coach. Why was something successful? What makes it work? I just try to use my expertise and whatever insight I have to the game.