The general plot of life is sometimes shaped by the different ways genuine intelligence combines with equally genuine ignorance.
Lucy GrealyAll narratives, even the confusing, are implicitly hopeful; they speak of a world that can be ordered, and thus understood.
Lucy GrealyBeauty, as defined by society at large, seemed to be only about who was best at looking like everyone else.
Lucy GrealyI treated despair in terms of hierarchy: if there was a more important pain in the world, it meant my own was negated. I thought I simply had to accept the fact that I was ugly, and that to feel despair about it was simply wrong.
Lucy GrealyDoes something which exists on the edge have no true relevance to the stable center, or does it, by being on the edge, become a part of the edge and thus a part of the boundary, the definition which gives the whole its shape?
Lucy GrealyI used to think truth was eternal, that once I knew, once I saw, it would be with me forever, a constant by which everything else could be measured. I know now that this isnโt so, that most truths are inherently unretainable, that we have to work hard all our lives to remember the most basic things.
Lucy Grealy