No one likes having offended another person; hence everyone feels so much better if the other person doesn't show he's been offended. Nobody likes being confronted by a wounded spaniel. Remember that. It is much easier patiently - and tolerantly - to avoid the person you have injured than to approach him as a friend. You need courage for that.
Ludwig WittgensteinI am sitting with a philosopher in the garden; he says again and again 'I know that thatโs a tree', pointing to a tree that is near us. Someone else arrives and hears this, and I tell him: 'This fellow isnโt insane. We are only doing philosophy.
Ludwig Wittgenstein