It's in understanding yourself deeply that you can lend yourself to another person's circumstances and another person's experience.
Lupita Nyong'oOprah played a big role in my understanding of what it meant to be female and to really step into your own power. I wouldn't even call her a role model; she was literally a reference point. You have the dictionary, you have the Bible, you have Oprah.
Lupita Nyong'oI discovered that joy is not the negation of pain, but rather acknowledging the presence of pain and feeling happiness in spite of it.
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