You have to have confidence in who you are, because you never know who's depending on you.

This is the gay agenda: equality. Not special rights, but the rights that are already written by [our Founding Fathers].

With technology and social media and citizen journalism, every rock that used to go unturned is now being flipped, lit and put on TV.

It only takes 140 characters to toss ones character out the window.

It is said that courage isn’t the absence of fear but the fortitude to confront fear. And as long as homophobia continues to be an accepted element of the locker room culture and homophobic language a coach’s motivational tool, we can never dismiss the courage it takes for an athlete-on any level-to be openly gay. Bobby Blair may not be a household name, but his journey-from frightened collegiate athlete to empowered advocate-is one that has an important lesson for anyone who believes in the unifying power of sports.

You have to have confidence in who you are, because you never know who's depending on you.

Most remember the groundbreaking first in sports; few remember the third or fourth to follow in those tracks. That's not downplaying anyone's achievements but rather recognizing that there comes a time when simply being there is no longer good enough for the record books.