Is there a secret? Yes. Anaïs Nin and Pauline Réage and Anne Rampling and Erica Jong all knew it. E. L. James knows it. It is the secret behind all of our writing. And our reading. Arousal starts in the mind. And grows in the mind. The brain is the most erogenous zone in a woman’s body. That is our secret. And it is what we share.

More than 3,500 hardcover novels are published each year. Even the most avid reader buys fewer than one a week.

There is no glory in honesty if it is destructive. And no shame in dishonesty if its goal is to offer grace.

‎"As Oedipus learned, the more you run away from what is predetermined the more you run toward it.

Sometimes love worked out, but more often it failed

There's no one thing you can do to have success, but if you have a plan and you keep doing things, you'll eventually build to a success.

The owl is one of the most curious creatures. A bird that stays awake when the rest of the world sleeps. They can see in the dark. I find that so interesting, to be mired in reality when the rest of the world is dreaming. What does he see and what does he know that the rest of the world is missing?