I define love thus: The will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth.
M. Scott PeckLove is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other only when they are quite capable of living without each other but choose to live with each other.
M. Scott PeckIf your goal is to avoid pain and escape suffering, I would not advise you to seek higher levels of consciousness or spiritual evolution.
M. Scott Peck