The will to grow is, in essence, the same phenomenon as love. Genuinely loving people are, by definition, growing people.
M. Scott PeckNot only do self-love and love of others go hand in hand but ultimately they are indistinguishable.
M. Scott PeckDiscipline, it has been suggested, is the means of human spiritual evolution. What provides the motive, the energy for discipline? This force I believe to be love. I define love thus: The will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth.
M. Scott PeckWhen you consider yourself valuable you will take care of yourself in all ways that are necessary.
M. Scott Peck