New York wasn't everything I thought it would be. It did not welcome me with open arms. The first year, I was held up at gunpoint. Raped on the roof of a building I was dragged up to with a knife in my back, and had my apartment broken into three times. I don't know why; I had nothing of value after they took my radio the first time.

I think you can be defiant and rebellious and still be strong and positive.

The definition of S & M is letting someone hurt you that you know would never hurt you.

When I'm hungry, I eat. When I'm thirsty, I drink. When I feel like saying something, I say it.

It takes more strength to cry, admit defeat. I have truth on my side, you only have deceit.

I think most children who are adopted ultimately want to meet their biological parents and often do. I think that is an important journey for children who are adopted to go on.

Hey, wait a minute, I was a Spice Girl once!