Let your children go if you want to keep them.
It's never a good deal when only one party thinks it is.
Most of us are better when things go better.
After the fact, our hearts always go out to the fallen Goliaths. Yet we invariably root for their Davids. Until they're winners.
Advice: It's more fun to give than to receive.
It's so much easier to suggest solutions when you don't know too much about the problem.