As far as you can, get into the habit of asking yourself in relation to any action taken by another: "What is his point of reference here?" But begin with yourself: examine yourself first.
Marcus AureliusRemember that the sole life which a man can lose is that which he is living at the moment.
Marcus AureliusRemember that man lives only in the present, in this fleeting instant; all the rest of his life is either past and gone, or not yet revealed.
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