As far as you can, get into the habit of asking yourself in relation to any action taken by another: "What is his point of reference here?" But begin with yourself: examine yourself first.
Marcus AureliusHe who follows reason in all things is both tranquil and active at the same time, and also cheerful and collected.
Marcus AureliusBear in mind that the measure of a man is the worth of the things he cares about. If it is good to say or do something, then it is even better to be criticized for having said or done it.
Marcus Aurelius