A good man does not spy around for the black spots in others, but presses unswervingly on towards his mark.
Marcus AureliusPurge your mind of all aimless and idle thoughts, especially those that pry into the affairs of others or wish them ill.
Marcus AureliusLet it be your constant method to look into the design of people's actions, and see what they would be at, as often as it is practicable; and to make this custom the more significant, practice it first upon yourself.
Marcus Aurelius