The inner master, when confronted with an obstacle, uses it as fuel, like a fire which consumes things that are thrown into it. A small lamp would be snuffed out, but a big fire will engulf what is thrown at it and burn hotter; it consumes the obstacle and uses it to reach a higher level.
Marcus AureliusGet rid of the judgement ... get rid of the 'I am hurt,' you are rid of the hurt itself.
Marcus Aurelius