All men have a feeling, that they would rather you told them a civil lie than give them a point blank refusal.... If you make a promise, the thing is still uncertain, depends on a future day, and concerns but few people; but if you refuse you alienate people to a certainty and at once, and many people too.
Marcus Tullius CiceroWars are to be undertaken in order that it may be possible to live in peace without molestation.
Marcus Tullius Cicero