I follow nature as the surest guide, and resign myself with implicit obedience to her sacred ordinances.
Marcus Tullius CiceroAll men have a feeling, that they would rather you told them a civil lie than give them a point blank refusal.... If you make a promise, the thing is still uncertain, depends on a future day, and concerns but few people; but if you refuse you alienate people to a certainty and at once, and many people too.
Marcus Tullius Cicero