The first bond of society is the marriage tie; the next our children; then the whole family of our house, and all things in common.
Marcus Tullius CiceroEveryone has the obligation to ponder well his own specific traits of character. He must also regulate them adequately and not wonder whether someone else's traits might suit him better. The more definitely his own a man's character is, the better it fits him.
Marcus Tullius Cicero