When you are Real you don't mind being hurt.

[O]nce you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand." - The Skin Horse from The Velveteen Rabbit

When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.

When you are Real, shabbiness doesn't matter.

Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand.

Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.

When you are Real you don't mind being hurt.