I'm very hard on myself and I have too many issues.

I don't want a boyfriend just for the sake of it. I don't trust most people out there. There's too much at risk and I don't need to be a notch on somebody's bedpost. I'll flirt with you all night long, but then it's buh, bye!

It's a long road when you face the world alone, when no one reaches out a hand for you to hold. You can find love if you search within your soul, and the emptiness you felt will disappear.

To quote Frank Sinatra, "Regrets, I've had a few / But then again, too few to mention."

Since having the babies, I realize that 90 percent of losing weight is my diet.

My father identified as a black man. No one asked him because he was clearly black. But people always ask me. If we were together, people would look at us in a really strange way. It sucked. As a little girl I had blond hair and they'd look at me, look at him, and be disgusted.

My heart has never been broken, I've never broken anyone else's.