The cosmic spotlight isn't pointed at you; it radiates from within you.
The way I see it, we teach our children through modeling.
We are not here to fix, change or belittle another person. We are here to support, forgive and heal one another.
We receive His peace when we ask Him for it. We keep His peace by extending it to others. Those are the keys and there are no others.
Attack thoughts towards others are attack thoughts towards ourselves.
And no one will listen to us until we listen to ourselves.