No one is longing to meet a desperate needy, angry, withholding, controlling person. If your beloved is out there they can't pick up your signals if you're dwelling in those spaces within yourself.

And no one will listen to us until we listen to ourselves.

Whatever worked in the past, build on it; whatever didn't work in the past, break the chain that binds you to it.

Think bigger. Forget limits. Embrace the idea of endless possibility.... It will change you.

Personal growth can be painful, because it can make us feel ashamed and humiliated to face our own darkness. But our spiritual goal is the journey out of fear-based, painful mental habit patterns, to those of love and peace.

Karma means that all actions have consequences. Grace means that in a moment of atonement -taking responsibility, making amends, asking for forgiveness - all karma is burned.

Withholding love is a form of self-sabotage, as what we withhold from others we are withholding from ourselves.