You marry at the level of your self-esteem, make sure you have self worth.
Life can be real tough... you can either learn from your problems, or keep repeating them over and over.
When you have a baby, love is automatic, when you get married, love is earned.
Tragedy plus time equals humor.
So, babies are taken from their mothers because they get temporarily insane and it's not the mother's fault. This is the thing: they shouldn't feel ashamed. They didn't cause this. It is not something they did to themselves.
You need to be able to manage stress because hard times will come, and a positive outlook is what gets you through.