Control over a woman is the only form of dominance most men possess, for most men are merely subjects of more powerful men.

'I hate discussions of feminism that end up with who does the dishes,' she said. So do I. But at the end, there are always the damned dishes.

Desire consumes you, it takes you over. You forget yourself completely. All you can think about is the other, the one you desire, your self is just a fire.

Even disasters -- there are always disasters when you travel -- can be turned into adventures.

When they kept you out it was because you were black; when they let you in, it is because you are black. That's progress?

Men's need to dominate women may be based in their own sense of marginality or emptiness; we do not know its root, and men are making no effort to discover it.

rain is one thing the British do better than anybody else.