I'd discovered you never know yourself until you're tested and that you don't even know you're being tested until afterwards, and that in fact there isn't anyone giving the test except yourself.
Marilyn FrenchFear is a question. What are you afraid of and why? Our fears are a treasure house of self-knowledge if we explore them.
Marilyn Frenchyou can't equate passive dependent power with assertive power because the dependent kind isn't fun, it doesn't give you a kick, it just allows you to survive.
Marilyn French