In life you have two choices. You can laugh or you can cry. You have to laugh, you have to.

Italian culture is so deeply soaked in an appreciation of the good things in life.

Yes. I did more research than I ever wanted to and saw some things I wish I didn't. I went on ride-alongs, spent time with Homicide, Cold Case, and SVU detectives, hung out in subways learning how to spot pervs and pick-pockets, viewed an autopsy, went to a police firing range, and witnessed court cases and I read, read, read.

I look at all the things life has allowed me to do, and I feel like the luckiest person in the world.

People who overcome their fears every day, without fanfare, without recognition. Quiet, everyday courage, that’s what I admire most.

If I can play a little part in the world's healing, and making it a better place than when I came, then I just thank God for that chance.

Every day is deeper and richer and more soulful.