No one can take away your pain, so don't let anyone take away your happiness.

Yes. I did more research than I ever wanted to and saw some things I wish I didn't. I went on ride-alongs, spent time with Homicide, Cold Case, and SVU detectives, hung out in subways learning how to spot pervs and pick-pockets, viewed an autopsy, went to a police firing range, and witnessed court cases and I read, read, read.

I think people were expecting me to be that kind of glamorous sexpot. So they were always, Wow you're not what I expected.

To me, the definition of sexy - at any age - is strength and confidence.

I am grateful that I didn't let fear get the best of me. It only holds you back from possibilities and greatness.

No one can tell you who you are and what you are made of, only you yourself know what you are made of, and only you yourself can do the work to become who you want to be.

The only reason I have the career I have is that I didn't quit.