Your problems are good. They are power in disguise.
Whoever has the most energy wins. Energy gives one confidence, power, self-esteem and new possibilities.
Enlightenment is awakened awareness.
Turn your troubles into treasures. Learn from them and grow from them.
I think the great livers, the people who are fully self-actualizing and alive, are the great givers.
As a tither you automatically become solution-oriented rather than problem-oriented.