I'm just not having a very good time and I don't have any reason to think it'll get anything but worse. I'm tired. I'm hurt. I'm sad. I feel used.
Marsha NormanWhen you fight something long enough, it becomes a center pole right in your life and you count on it to be there to fight with.
Marsha NormanMy view is that musicals are love stories with great final scenes. It's just that simple. Musicals are also conflicts between two worlds. And by those criteria, 'The Color Purple' is actually exactly the kind of story that makes for a great musical. Yes, it's got hard stuff in it, but so does 'Les Miserables' and 'Phantom of the Opera.'
Marsha NormanMama, I know you used to ride the bus. Riding the bus, and itโs hot and bumpy and crowded and too noisy, and more than anything else in the world, you wanna get off. And the only reason in the world you donโt get off is itโs still fifty blocks from where youโre going. Well, I can get off right now if I want to. Because even if I ride fifty more years and get off then, itโs still the same place when I step down to it. Whenever I feel like it, I can get off. Whenever Iโve had enough, itโs my stop. Iโve had enough.
Marsha NormanPeople listen to music with cavemen ears: Is it a bird song or the call of a lion? The audience at a musical is dancing in their hearts.
Marsha NormanPeople do think that if they avoid the truth, it might change to something better before they have to hear it.
Marsha NormanArt is how a culture records its life, how it poses questions for the next generation and how it will be remembered.
Marsha NormanDuring the day, our souls gather their ... impressions of us, how our lives feel. ... Our spirits collect these impressions, keep them together, like wisps of smoke in a bag. Then, when we're asleep, our brains open up these bags of smoke ... and take a look.
Marsha NormanFamily is just accident.... They don't mean to get on your nerves. They don't even mean to be your family, they just are.
Marsha NormanIn the theater, when people hear that you're writing a play, they want to know what it's all about, whether there's a role for them. You write it fairly quickly, and it becomes a group activity before you're really ready to have company.
Marsha NormanThe theater is a communal event, like church. The playwright constructs a mass to be performed for a lot of people. She writes a prayer, which is really just the longings of one heart.
Marsha NormanIf I had not had music in my life, I would be the neurasthenic vision of the playwright.
Marsha NormanIf someone wants to say 'I love you' in a straight play, they say it, and then it's the other person's turn to talk. But in a song, you can sing about it for another three minutes. The musical form has that unique opportunity to express at length what joy really feels like.
Marsha NormanKnowing is the most profound kind of love, giving someone the gift of knowledge about yourself.
Marsha NormanWhat's so good about a heaven where, one of these days, you're going to get your embarrassing old body back?
Marsha NormanThere is no point in trying to remember your dreams ... There is only the unspeakable joy of eavesdropping on your spirit, catching tiny glimpses of its independent life, resting for a moment in its wisdom, puzzling, laughing sometimes, over what it's up to, what it makes of you.
Marsha NormanAt the heart of the failure of most plays is the inability to carry on a thoughtful conversation about your work with yourself.
Marsha Normanon the whole the American theater, dominated by men, does not perceive women fighting for their lives as a central issue.
Marsha NormanAfter I won the Pulitzer, there was this sense of, 'OK, that's enough for you. Now go away.' What I wanted was to keep writing, keep working. But no one would produce anything of mine they didn't think would be as big as ''night, Mother.'
Marsha NormanWe are not afraid to look under the bed, or to wash the sheets; we know that life is messy. We know that somebody has to clean it up, and that only if it is cleaned up can we hope to start over, and get better.
Marsha NormanThere are days when I think the National Endowment for the Arts should issue a quota system for the production of plays by women - especially when you realize women buy 70 percent of all theater tickets.
Marsha NormanWhen ''night, Mother' opened, I did not know how long it would be before I would have another show on Broadway.
Marsha NormanNo. You can't. And I can't do anything either, about my life, to change it, make it better, make me feel better about it. Like it better, make it work. But I can stop it. Shut it down, turn it off like the radio when there's nothing on I want to listen to. It's all I really have that belongs to me and I'm going to say what happens to it. And it's going to stop. And I'm going to stop it. So. Let's just have a good time.
Marsha Norman