Todays decisions are tomorrows realities. Remember you have three choices: take it, leave it or change it.
Stay away from what might have been, and look at what can be.
Non-participation gives us hardening of the attitude. Life goes on, and if we do not participate, life still goes on. If a negative attitude is not getting us where we want to go, then why not change the attitude? Reshaping attitudes is possible. Awareness is the key initial step.