What if living your life, naturally created what you wanted?
How someone is responding to you may have nothing to do with you.
You can never get more by saying "No." You can hold a current position by saying "No", but you can only move forward by saying "Yes."
Everything you want and you don't have, you get from other people.
In communication, you get back what you send out.
You must learn to love, respect and believe in yourself. To accomplish this, begin by restructuring your current self-programming.