Either you will do now what it takes or ten years from now you wish that you had.
Do exactly the opposite of what the sheep are doing in order to become the Shepherd.
The mind, like any muscle, must be exercised.
To yourself you are what you think. To the outside world, you are what you do.
Learn to trust and be trustworthy. When you treat someone as if they are being dishonest, you will train them to be. It's more powerful to treat someone as if they are being honest, and you will train them to now be honest, even if they weren't then.
Nothing has any power except the power that you give it.