It's a matter of ABC: When we encounter ADVERSITY, we react by thinking about it. Our thoughts rapidly congeal into BELIEFS. These beliefs may become so habitual we don't even realize we have them unless we stop to focus on them. And they don't just sit there idly; they have CONSEQUENCES.
Martin SeligmanWhen well-being comes from engaging our strengths and virtues, our lives are imbued with authenticity.
Martin SeligmanOptimism is a tool with a certain clear set of benefits: it fights depression, it promotes achievement and produces better health.
Martin SeligmanPsychology should be just as concerned with building strength as with repairing damage
Martin SeligmanYou go into flow when your highest strengths are deployed to meet the highest challenges that come your way.
Martin SeligmanBy activating an expansive, tolerant, and creative mindset, positive feelings maximize the social, intellectual, and physical benefits that will accrue.
Martin SeligmanThe pursuit of happiness is enshrined in the Declaration of Independence as a right of all Americans, as well as on the self-improvement shelves of every American bookstore. Yet the scientific evidence makes it seem unlikely that you can change your level of happiness in any sustainable way. It suggests that we each have a fixed range for happiness just as we do for weight. And just as dieters almost always regain the weight they lose, sad people don't become lastingly happy, and happy people don't become lastingly sad.
Martin Seligman