When any relationship is characterized by difference, particularly a disparity in power, there remains a tendency to model it on the parent-child-relationship. Even protectiveness and benevolence toward the poor, toward minorities, and especially toward women have involved equating them with children.
Mary Catherine BatesonHuman beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.
Mary Catherine BatesonA suprising number of physicians manage to continue to care about persons even after the rigors of medical training.
Mary Catherine BatesonWorlds can be found by a child and an adult bending down and looking together under the grass stems or at the skittering crabs in a tidal pool.
Mary Catherine BatesonEvery loss recapitulates earlier losses, but every affirmation of identity echoes earlier moments of clarity.
Mary Catherine BatesonTraditionally in American society, men have been trained for both competition and teamwork through sports, while women have been reared to merge their welfare with that of the family, with fewer opportunities for either independence or other team identifications, and fewer challenges to direct competition. In effect, women have been circumscribed within that unit where the benefit of one is most easily believed to be the benefit of all.
Mary Catherine Bateson