As far as men go, they never gave me a chance to be me; they were always scared that somebody was going to take me.

I cannot save the world, that's not what I'm trying to do. I guess I'm just trying to walk the walk and be an example to those that want it. Not everybody does, but if Mary J Blige can come out of that same hole you were in, then you can do it too - that's my goal: to do that without saying it, but actually live it.

People in my neighborhood inspired me to sing. Believe in your ability no matter what, but be realistic with yourself and your ability.

I think women should band together to get us more respect in all the businesses that we're in because, you know, if we turn 40, we're nothing and nobody. We all should band together and just say we're not gonna go down like that.

I've been a tomboy my whole life. But then you get older, you get married, you soften up.

I do consider myself part of black history.

You demand respect and you'll get it. First of all, you give respect.