It's that first step-getting out the door-that's the toughest. If you can do that, you've already won.
Mary J. BligeOne day I realized that I wasn't getting anywhere by blaming other people for my circumstances. I finally understood: Even if you feel someone has wronged you or owes you something, no one is going to give you anything for free.
Mary J. BligeMy God is a God who wants me to have things. He wants me to bling. He wants me to be the hottest thing on the block.
Mary J. BligeYou have to have a plan. Everything has to be planned. For me, I start with the title of my album, before I even start with the songs. I write down different things that I want album to say, and then the songs come from the different words.
Mary J. Blige