I used to think I was ugly. I thought I looked like a camel. A person who doesn't love themselves, they will see anything that pops up on their face. I've seen squirrels, I've seen a bird, and I've seen all kinds of animals on my face. But that is the result of self-hate. I've learned to say: 'You know what? I am a beautiful black woman'.
Mary J. BligeMy journey continues, because I've, you know, conquered a lot. And I know how to conquer the rest.
Mary J. BligeI've been praying to God to show me how to forgive myself. Because... maybe... that's the thing I've been searching for.
Mary J. BligeI was inspired to create 'My Life' so I could finally share a personal part of my life beyond my music.
Mary J. BligeIn the inner city, there's a mentality that the government owes you something. My breakthrough came when I stopped feeling sorry for myself and took responsibility for every part of my life. No more pity parties. I've gotta love me more than anybody else loves me.
Mary J. BligeI didn't never have to go to a therapist. I just always put it in a song and you heard me.
Mary J. BligeAs a child I always wanted to be a singer. The music my mother played in the house moved me - Aretha Franklin, Chaka Khan, Mahalia Jackson. It was truly spiritual. It made you understand what God was. We are all spirits. We get depressed. But music makes you want to live. I know my music has saved my life.
Mary J. Blige