Here's a thing about the death of your mother, or anyone else you love: You can't anticipate how you'll feel afterward. People will tell you; a few may be close to right, none exactly right.
Mary SchmichBe nice to your siblings. They are your link to the past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Mary SchmichDonโt feel guilty if you donโt know what you want to do with your lifeโฆthe most interesting people I know didnโt know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still donโt.
Mary Schmich