If you have no power, talk about your influence. If you have power, talk about the constraints that hem you in.
The life of pleasure breeds boredom. The life of duty breeds resentment.
I trust you because I need you.
The exhibitionist loves to flirt with shame
An adolescent is both an impulsive child and a self-starting adult.
Theory can leave questions unanswered, but practice has to come up with something.