The ninety percent of human experience that does not fit into established narrative patterns falls into oblivion.
Whether I give to a beggar or not, his existence puts me in the wrong.
When I try to portray to myself my heart's desire, nothing happens.
Shameless: Punish me for my desire if you will. It burns still.
Getting ready: the show girl scratches her breast and shakes out her feathers.
Lack of reciprocity ruins friendships, but makes love affairs exciting for a time.